The document debates the advantages and drawbacks of learning correct sex methodology from books and courses and if this takes spontaneity out of the sex life. A few people believe it con ruin sex whilst others feel it's the only way to reach real sexual accomplishment. We chat about what we feel is the balance that has to be reached between these two opposites.
When I attend lectures and courses, one of the first things that Always comes up is that with too much technique sex becomes outlandish. I make small gambles with myself as to how long that it takes before someone sticks up their hand and airs their objection.
O.K, that's a hard question, let's answer it : Firstly , precisely how NATURAL is a sex life that has been DE-NATURALIZED since birth? Michel Odent, creator of the Premier Health Research Center in London has statistically proven that the time of birth has a direct influence on the human being's capacity to love, and can have a repercussion on that person's sex life. Everyone knows that in this day and age caesarian sections are normal and even vaginal delivery is heavily medicalized.
After being born we grow up and ultimately we go to Sun. college where we are taught that sex is disgraceful ( unless you are trying to fall pregnant ) and that masturbation is EXTREMELY Sinful. Then you grow into adolescence and start watching porn and jerking off then and having guilty feelings about it, and as quickly as you can you try and lose your virginity.
That's also a large guilt trip because the law of nature claims that your body is sexually mature at the age of 12-13 years, but OUR law announces that you must be at the very least 16-18 ( depending on where you reside ), and it'd be best if you were married anyway. Hence roughly you are feeling scared or guilty, you are on an elevated sugar, fatty diet with very little exercise, and so you are not the most powerful of folk. Probably you have erectile Problems and premature ejaculation.
Men are getting small pleasure and women are getting no pleasure at all, everyone is emulating porn, and you are telling me all this is completely natural? !
Okay. One thing at a time : There is nothing natural about our sex life in this time. We sway like pendulums between Sex Selling and Religious Ethicality. We are totally confused. We have forgotten that sex is something gorgeous, clean ( regardless of whether it is a one night stand ), magical and important to our contentment. We have forgotten totally the right way to have natural sex because we have lost our sensitivity - it is tougher for us to connect and we don't talk to our partners about sex!
Even if we do we are similar to the blind leading the blind - we don't have any idea where we should be going! So the point is this, you have to learn the methodology at some particular point and then be able to forget about it ; make it part of your DNA. But you DO need to learn it.
I have read numerous books and have put together a variety of material that complements each other, so you won't waste time and cash purchasing rubbish. If you're doing this together with your spouse, then that is even better because you can compare notes. If however your spouse is like those men or gals that think learning methodology will compromise their sex life, then I recommend you do the following : don't force the issue at all - order your material, learn your material, bring your material into the bedroom and then find her G-Spot! Leave your other half reeling and pleading for more!! You'll see how swiftly she'll change her mind about learning method!
When I attend lectures and courses, one of the first things that Always comes up is that with too much technique sex becomes outlandish. I make small gambles with myself as to how long that it takes before someone sticks up their hand and airs their objection.
O.K, that's a hard question, let's answer it : Firstly , precisely how NATURAL is a sex life that has been DE-NATURALIZED since birth? Michel Odent, creator of the Premier Health Research Center in London has statistically proven that the time of birth has a direct influence on the human being's capacity to love, and can have a repercussion on that person's sex life. Everyone knows that in this day and age caesarian sections are normal and even vaginal delivery is heavily medicalized.
After being born we grow up and ultimately we go to Sun. college where we are taught that sex is disgraceful ( unless you are trying to fall pregnant ) and that masturbation is EXTREMELY Sinful. Then you grow into adolescence and start watching porn and jerking off then and having guilty feelings about it, and as quickly as you can you try and lose your virginity.
That's also a large guilt trip because the law of nature claims that your body is sexually mature at the age of 12-13 years, but OUR law announces that you must be at the very least 16-18 ( depending on where you reside ), and it'd be best if you were married anyway. Hence roughly you are feeling scared or guilty, you are on an elevated sugar, fatty diet with very little exercise, and so you are not the most powerful of folk. Probably you have erectile Problems and premature ejaculation.
Men are getting small pleasure and women are getting no pleasure at all, everyone is emulating porn, and you are telling me all this is completely natural? !
Okay. One thing at a time : There is nothing natural about our sex life in this time. We sway like pendulums between Sex Selling and Religious Ethicality. We are totally confused. We have forgotten that sex is something gorgeous, clean ( regardless of whether it is a one night stand ), magical and important to our contentment. We have forgotten totally the right way to have natural sex because we have lost our sensitivity - it is tougher for us to connect and we don't talk to our partners about sex!
Even if we do we are similar to the blind leading the blind - we don't have any idea where we should be going! So the point is this, you have to learn the methodology at some particular point and then be able to forget about it ; make it part of your DNA. But you DO need to learn it.
I have read numerous books and have put together a variety of material that complements each other, so you won't waste time and cash purchasing rubbish. If you're doing this together with your spouse, then that is even better because you can compare notes. If however your spouse is like those men or gals that think learning methodology will compromise their sex life, then I recommend you do the following : don't force the issue at all - order your material, learn your material, bring your material into the bedroom and then find her G-Spot! Leave your other half reeling and pleading for more!! You'll see how swiftly she'll change her mind about learning method!
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